BEAUTY AND WEIGHT LOSS TIPS

Society has produced a nation of people who deny weight loss and beauty. The media is trying to convince viewers that it's okay if you're a little heavy. But in real life, real life doesn't play the way we see it on TV.

The truth is that obese people will never be accepted as normal. People will hardly ever tell her to her face, but they'll show her with their actions. In many secret stunts where a skinny celebrity undergoes a transformation to control the overweight, they get a great revelation! They realize the discrimination suffered by fat people on a day-to-day life.

The fact is that when you walk into a room, no one is going to say "Wow, what a beautiful mind she has" or "She has a great personality." If they say the following is "but she's too overweight." That's because society in America is conditioned on hiding or ignoring the truth.

My mother studied at the university for 8 years and earned a master's degree. When he was doing his internship at a children's center, the person in charge of the program had promised him a job. At that time, the person in charge left, and a new person came to charge. Although my mother had the grades and experience, they didn't give her the job. She reminds me of this story all the time and always says it happened because of jealousy, but I know it was because she was too overweight. I only say this because she had applied for other jobs and when she showed up she would be rejected, although she had all the experience and qualifications they required.

At my heaviest weight I was about 256 pounds. I was totally oblivious to the way people discriminated against me, because my family unconsciously taught me to ignore comments and treatments. You can see that when a person is very overweight, they build walls. This defense gives the person permission to eat more and more until they become very obese and unhealthy. My family used pride as a defense against appearance and discrimination. At the time I didn't see what was going on, but when I finally lost some weight I could understand that I was using emotional walls to keep people away, because it was so heavy. I used my own made-up reasons to make excuses as to why I was so overweight. See if any of these excuses look familiar.

Whatever your excuse, it will never overshadow the fact that society will treat you in a certain way if it is obese or thin. I've been on both sides of the scale, and I must say I like to be better on the smaller side. I'm not at all close to being at my best yet, but since I've lost some weight, I've noticed a big change in the way people treat me. Sometimes it's really good and sometimes it's really bad. For example, there are times when I can be on the New York City subway with my son and young girls look at me badly, because they assume I'm his girlfriend! After losing some weight, I look younger in some way, and that makes women and girls jealous of me. I know, because actually a little girl once told me. We were in the Department of Motor Vehicles, because my son wanted to get his driver's license. I was still underage, so I had to go with him. when it was his turn, we both approached the line, because he knew he had to sign something. The young woman behind the counter spoke to her hastily when she asked, "Where's your father? You can't be here without your father!"

Even though I was there the whole time, she didn't know I was her mother. After he realized, he said, "Oh, I'm sorry, I thought I was your girlfriend." On the other side there have been times when it's a good thing, because I mix well when I'm with a younger audience.

I take good care of my skin, exercise and drink a lot of water, because it's worth looking good. They say beauty is in the viewer's EYES, and that's why I make sure people's eyes are seeing something nice. Your appearance is the first thing people will see when they meet you. Make sure they give you the respect you know you deserve. It's not vanity, it's called LOVE YOURSELF.